How To Choose The Right Bondage Toy For You - Hardrrr BDSM

It can be confusing to choose which bondage sex toys would fit for you when trying it for the first time, but in reality it is quite simple to pick depending on what you’d like to achieve.

On this article, we cover how to choose the right bondage toy for you.

1. Find out what you want to explore

Sometimes not all types of sex toys works for everyone, so it’s important to know your interest level as this will help you find the best set of bondage toys for you. Do you want to explore the dominant side? Or be a submissive? There are many different type of interest levels you can choose from.

How To Choose The Right Bondage Toy For You - Hardrrr BDSM

How to find out your interest level:

  • I want to try bondage for the first time as a beginner. I also have no experience any kind of bondage sex toys

  • Me and my partner have already tried BDSM and would like to explore further on other areas of BDSM sex play

  • I am an active BDSM enthusiast and have been part of the BDSM community. I would like to explore the advanced and want to be a fully trained BDSM practitioner.

By narrowing down the list above based on your interest, this will help you find the best bondage sex toys for you to start with.

You can also browse Hardrrr’s premium bondage equipment below based on your interest level, or you can view the main shop catalogue here.

BDSM toy for beginners you might like

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BDSM toy for experienced users you might like

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BDSM toy for fully trained users you might like

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2. Built and Material

It is essential to find out what materials the toys are made of, as this will help you pick which one fits your preferences. It is mostly the soft type materials that is best for beginners, while other harder materials such as stainless steel is the usual choice by experienced or fully trained users.

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Which materials is best for me to choose from:

  • Softer materials such as thin leather, rubber, silicone works best for beginners

  • A combination of light and heavy materials fits experienced users

  • Sturdier and heavy materials such as stainless steel is often used by fully trained and advanced users

Check out some of Hardrrr’s BDSM equipment to help keep your bondage experience pumping!

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3. Gameplay / Role-Play

After you have chosen the area of BDSM you’d like to explore as well as the type of bondage sex toy materials you will use, you need to choose what kind of gameplay you prefer to try in bondage sex. This can be fetish plays, being restrained, or involved in discipline bondage play.

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BDSM Role-Play scenarios to choose from:

  • Doctor and Nurse

  • Teacher and Student

  • Master and Slave

  • Owner and Pet

  • Law Enforcer and Convict

See some of the Hardrrr bondage sets you can use during your role-plays below.

BDSM equipment sets you might like

  • Bound You BDSM Set 12pcs – Black Bondage Set

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  • Vivid Rainbow Set 8pcs – Purple Glossy Soft Bondage Set

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  • Leopard Skin Print BDSM Kit 13pcs Set

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  • Vivid Sky Set 8pcs – Blue Glossy Soft Bondage Set

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  • Vivid Sakura Set 8pcs – Pink Glossy Soft Bondage Set

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Once you have chosen your preferenes based on this list above, you should be able to pick the best bondage equipment toy for your BDSM play! You can also gradually start with the beginner sex toys if you are just starting, then climb up your way to the advanced and more extreme BDSM sex plays.

You can also visit our complete product list here and try out or premium quality BDSM equipment only here at Hardrrr!

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