How To Use BDSM Equipments For Beginners

Many couples often practice bondage to enhance their sexual relationship. If you prefer being in control, or being controlled, you may find these bondage toys to suit your sexual experience.

Here is a list of BDSM equipment for beginners and how to use them.

Blindfolds

Premium Black Leather Blindfold

Blindfolds are bondage equipment that restraint the wearer to eliminate the sense of seeing during a bondage sex. It improves physical arousal and establish sexual anticipation, which adds the element of surprise and excitement. It is also one of the most affordable BDSM toys.

Ways to use blindfolds during bondage sex:

  • Blind fold your partner and go down on them to perform oral sex

  • Feed your blindfolded partner such as chocolates or strawberries to enhance the sensory pleasure during role-play

  • Blind fold your partner and stimulate their senses with the use of heat such as oil-based massage candles to enhance pleasure

Blindfolds come in a variety of sizes, colour, and texture to choose from. You can also check out some of our blindfolds below!

Blindfolds you might like

  • Leopard Skin Print BDSM Kit 13pcs Set

    $49.00

    55% Off

  • White & Green Fairy Goat Leather Blindfold

    $28.00

    53% Off

  • Red Wine Leather Blindfold

    $40.00

    50% Off

  • Spearmint Blue Leather Blindfold

    $20.00

    64% Off

Bondage Cuffs

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Bondage Cuffs are restraints used in BDSM sex to help make your role-playing situations more interesting. It can be either used for the wrists, ankles, and thighs. It also comes in a variety of materials used, such as leather which is one of the most popular. There are also bondage cuffs that are made of velcro, and steel.

Ways to use bondage cuffs:

  • Use handcuffs to tie your partner to bed frames, staircases, or tables

  • Use the cuffs on your partner and tease them by doing either a lap dance or masturbation on them.

  • Select a position to try the cuffs with such as missionary, doggy style, or ankle-grabbing

  • Stimulate your partner with other sex toys such as butt plugs while they are cuffed

Using bondage cuffs can definitely spice up your sexual relationship with your partner. Not only it is often used by experts but is a good introduction to BDSM for beginners too.

You can check out some of our bondage cuffs below!

Bondage Cuffs you might like

  • Leopard Skin Print BDSM Kit 13pcs Set

    $49.00

    55% Off

  • White & Green Fairy Goat Leather Ankle Cuffs

    $45.00

    53% Off

  • White & Pink Fairy Goat Leather Ankle Cuffs

    $45.00

    53% Off

  • White & Green Fairy Goat Leather Hand Cuffs

    $48.00

    56% Off

Bondage Gags

BDSM Gags or Bondage Gags are types of restraints used to minimise the ability to speak clearly and eventually make the wearer moan, and drool instead during a bondage role-play. Bondage Gags are often in the form of rubber of silicone spheres which are called Ball Gags, and is one of the most popular type of bondage gag equipment.

There are also different level of restraining levels for bondage gags by using other types such as Dentists Mouth Retractors which retracts the mouth wide open, and Total Silence Gags which effectively clasp upper and lower lips and tongue all at the same time.

How to use bondage gags:

Ball Gags are usually strapped around the head during a BDSM sex role-play. While other bondage mouth retractors are simply placed and fitted around the upper and lower lip of the mouth.

Ways to use bondage gags:

  • Use a bondage mouth retractor on your partner and have your partner perform oral sex while wearing the equipment

  • Use stimulating sex toys on your partner such as vibrators while they are wearing a ball gag to have them start moaning or drooling

  • You can use bondage gags in combination with cuffs and blindfolds, and have the submissive wear all of these to maximise the BDSM experience

You can also check out some of our bondage gags below!

Bondage Gags you might like

  • Leopard Skin Print BDSM Kit 13pcs Set

    $49.00

    55% Off

  • White & Green Fairy Goat Leather Ball Gag

    $30.00

    55% Off

  • White & Pink Fairy Goat Leather Ball Gag

    $30.00

    55% Off

  • Red Wine Leather Ball Gag

    $55.00

    42% Off

Exploring these BDSM equipment will help you discover what turns you and your partner on. Not only it will increase the fun, but can also improve your relationship with your partner.

You can also check out our Hardrrr BDSM Pack which contains a set of quality and safe-to-use bondage equipment suited for those who want to start exploring the world of BDSM!

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